How to distinguish Obsession and Love.

How to distinguish obsession and love.” I found this very helpful for young people.
The first clue is about what is your main interest? What attracts you most?
-If it’s the body, it’s obsession. If it’s the total personality, the whole person, then its love.

-Next is how many things attract you? If there are only a few, then its obsession. If it is many or most, it’s love.

-If the romance started quickly (hours or day) chances are its obsession. If it grew slowly (months or years even) then it’s love.

wow! nice input sir Abs..I hope it will enlighten sa mga naglivog pa diha kung unsa ang tinuod nga gibati...

Abel wrote:How to distinguish obsession and love.” I found this very helpful for young people.
The first clue is about what is your main interest? What attracts you most?
-If it’s the body, it’s obsession. If it’s the total personality, the whole person, then its love.

-Next is how many things attract you? If there are only a few, then its obsession. If it is many or most, it’s love.

-If the romance started quickly (hours or day) chances are its obsession. If it grew slowly (months or years even) then it’s love.

how about if you dont know what really attracted you to that person? :?: :?: :?: